|Color of the day: White
Incense of the day: Dill
Those we love are more likely to bear our tempers and experience us when we are at our worst. Tongue-lashings, moodiness, and fussy or whiny behavior are examples of the abuse we sometimes heap upon our partners, friends, and family. This spell helps us to see when we are hurting those we care about so that we can change destructive behavior. Take a yellow candle and place it in the center of a circle of agate chunks and honeysuckle flowers. Light the candle and gaze into the flame. Say:
Flame, lend your light so that I may see.
Stones, bring me clarity.
Honeysuckle scent, such a delight, lend me your sweetness to gift to loved ones tonight.
I call these things unto me, as I speak it, so mote it be!