It can be difficult to find a mate in this harried age. For a little magical help, write out a list of the traits you want in a mate. Place two pieces of burning sage or copal inside a wedding vase or pottery bowl. Sitting close to the rising smoke so that your breath commingles with the rising smoke, read your list aloud. Envision your desires rising out into the universe and then returning in the form of the person you are looking for.